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♥Wednesday, November 4, 2009

I'm just a little but caught in the middle
Life is a maze and Love is a riddle
I don't know where to go,can do it alone
I've tried and I don't know why

The show by Lenka

Well, hey peeps! I recently know what to do for the holidays. I have decided to write lots of topic for reader digest. Not for the money but for fun. I know it may sound random but it sounds cool and it's a cool idea to distract me and improved in my reading. Well there isn't any age limit but i'm thinking of a subject. Well my little brother and I have just created one. So let me try to write it first on the blog and let me see what you think.

The effectness of a divorced parents to their children

I know i'm a teenager and divorced is a big life to a child like me. Well I do have friends whose parents are divorced and i'm really pretty upset about it. The questions that I really do ask myself is "What is Love?" What is love is a song by a variety of singers but I could name one that I recognised, it is by a one-man band,Nevershoutnever! Christofer Drew, the singer of the song wrote it because of his parents. When his parents were having a hard relationship.

When I listen to this song, I really do feel thankful that I still do have my parents that does support and raise me but I've been also thinking about other children like me. Well I used to have this friend whom I knew for months but had no clue of what he was going through. Well, I knew he was troubled. He was always looking for trouble. I knew I couldn't help him because there was his friends that are also troubled like him.

Well, his parents remarried and he is currently staying with his mother. Well the bad thing is he has learnt how to smoke, drink alcohol and does not respect his religion. I couldn't believe when he told me this. The first time I saw him is he had this innocent face that he puts on him.

I believe if my parents ever got seperated or divorced, I wouldn't believe in love, loss my trust towards my parents, stress and troubled that would be written all over my face. Well, I do believe that this are what children like me feels when their parents are divorced, unlove and empty from the inside.

Parents who are divorced, I do believe that they will try to fight custody for their children and that worsen the situations. I do have another friend whose parents are divorced but she asked for things. Things that she might think that are love like a new handbag, a new phone and many more but the truth is I don't think that is love because the divorced parents are giving what she wants and not wants as in hugs and kisses.

The effect of divorce also caused the children to have more attention to themselves. An example will be shop-lifting. Although the children are really rich and they could afford it but they still do these because of attention that they want from both parents. They want the love from them because I believe love from their friends are isn't enough for them to complete of themselves.

I was talking about the song what is love by Nevershoutnever!, part of the lyrics is "What is love, I don't know anymore,I used to look up on that love" That tells me alot. The singer who thinks that love is already there but there isn't anymore.

Well, parent's if you are reading this, please love your child like how my parents do because all they need is love from you. Trust me.

LOVE,
Zarifah

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